+1 to this! I want to keep up with my chewy, chonky threads but I don't want to feel pressured to drop them/ignore them so I can boomerang just to ensure I meet the numerical threshold to stay in the game (that's not fun and it's not fair because then I'm just using my thread partner). I admire all of you who retained the ability to tag fast after age 30 but that just ain't me most of the time, heh.